[In order to understand this ‘encoded’ image, it is suggested that one clicks to enlarge it… Due to compression, JPG version is not as good as the BMP’s. Let it be, and me be free.]

There is no honor in cheating oneself…

老男人这头野马曾经碰过这样的美女,说她能牵制住我。我看了她一眼……是个二十来岁,在老男人告诉她我三十出头后有些错愣的美女。很明显,老男人的外表又骗了一个女生。她是牵制不了老男人的,论江湖阅历,她哪有本事牵制得了?新加坡女生还是……很单纯的骄傲着比较好。老男人虽然是个文人,但久经战阵,什么大人物没见过?很高兴有美女抬举,但她找错了人,因为要牵制老男人你必须有相等的历练、内涵。成功男人的背后,一个好女人是必要的。这类不知天高地厚的小女生,老男人不打算玩她,因为若是爱上她肯定会被她烦死的。所以,老男人的感情世界中……女人数量绝对相对的小,因为每一个闯得进来的女人都得仔细认识和一辈子回忆。以新加坡女生天真的思维,她应该找一个比较普通或简单一点儿的男人。

其实……心爱的四大美女似乎也没有能‘压制’老男人的。

老男人感觉不到真正的爱情,就不可能能压制老男人。

老男人决定不再挽留小猫;她太过分了。反正她家人的胡说八道老男人也腻了,她这么想走就走好了。老男人素来是吃软不吃硬的,要不是为了当年的情义……今早被她给气到清醒了。这个女人面壁不会思过,受到教训不懂悔改,老佛爷也……不太高兴。虽然老男人时时为她辩解,其实要不高兴的应该是老男人。不……我何止不高兴。

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[It has been observed for MANY times. IPs visiting my blog run up to over a hundred or hundreds per day, but the WordPress blog stats only pick up less than even half. See below.]
Pinky Miu Miu觉得梁智强这头色魔的丑闻是私事儿的话,其实真正是私事儿的是正宗鸡和拆桌院在洛杉矶的结婚注册;其实圈内的不少人都已经知道,在娱乐圈不光是刘德华、周迅、正宗鸡和拆桌院,还有所谓的重婚的,同性恋和同性恋娶老婆继续同性恋的,和双性恋娶老婆继续同性恋和包养情妇的云云。一条名单要是老男人全暴光肯定被‘追杀’。其实老男人是站在正宗鸡和拆桌院那边的,因为这根本就是他们的私事儿;这在圈子内是很正常的,因为人与人的关系都建立在道义和利益上,而虽然我们知道,但我们还是不知道真正的内幕。而且娱乐圈的‘潜规则’……这里应该说的是‘非明文规定’的规则是艺人的表面身份是市场规定的;所以有人说Foyce虚报年龄,老男人不以为意。因为实际上很多艺人的资料根本就是炒出来的。

艺人都是‘商品’,只要观众喜欢,演出来就是了。

正宗鸡和拆桌院私下因为缘分而悄悄结婚,也许果真是拆桌院不满正宗鸡老是泡夜店胡搞女人所以‘离婚’;但这些都是他们的私事儿。但拆桌院不爱正宗鸡,就算结婚也可以跑掉的,若爱正宗鸡就算没有结婚也会在一起。其实媒体这样攻击渲染他们,主要的还是因为他们都是名人,而不是因为他们隐瞒婚姻。这样攻击他们是不公平的,因为他们的私事儿不应该受到外界影响,但人都是八卦的。他们自己处理好了。就好像最近一则女工登报找以前想追她的那个男人,你们认为这个女工已经40岁左右,头发都开始脱落了,却要找一个50岁左右的男人就没有想过这个男人应该已经到中介买个越南老婆什么的?

为什么要登报找那个男人?

就如我给THB留言提到的……感情的事情,局外人只能以理性的角度去看待,但理性必须依靠IQ。要是THB是这个女人的好朋友,她会鼓励她去寻找那个男人吗?这就是看待正宗鸡和拆桌院事件的相同观点。

老天不只是会给男人考验,也会给老是打着‘追求真爱’的女人考验,要通过考验才可能得到最真挚的爱情。

这个……女工想找男人,在华人的传统价值观有那么一条,嚷嚷上口:不孝有三,无后为大。用屁股想都知道,这个男人如今50岁出头,其高堂应该在70~90岁左右。也就是说,当年那个男人出现在女人面前,女人为了另外一个男人对他不理不睬而错过了这个男人也失去了另一个男人。简单的说,这个女人是个愚蠢的女人……到底谁才是自己的真命天子自己哪里会知道,只有老天才知晓,因为老天安排的。老男人就说了THB*,那么当年要是THB是女人的朋友,她会提醒这个女人去接触那个男人吗?要是那个男人却是十年后50岁的糟老头,THB如无意外肯定会让那个三十多岁时的女人避开这个男人。

老男人有错吗?这就是人类一般上正常IQ的思维。

换句话说,女人的爱情观其实是很幼稚的,也根本不是爱情。所以这个女工不明白爱情又没有高智慧友人在旁的情况下错过了这个男人。她基本上是在赌博。结果卡翻开了,如今却登报找那个50岁的男人。老男人就问那位THB,你要是女人的朋友会支持她去找那个男人吗?我们明知道有着70~90岁父母的男人孝顺的话,一定娶妻生子;除非他真的不孝,真的没有魅力,甚至没钱买个老婆……其实我也不想知道THB的答案。有必要吗?

摆在这个女人面前的只有两条路,和康没分是一样的。四十岁,人老珠黄,多两年连孩子都生不出,这个时候要找这个男人……老男人个人估计女人根本不爱他,而只是想找个长期饭票或符合社会。她……又在赌。这个男人不烂,肯定有家庭。这个男人要是烂到家,在一起不可能有幸福。老男人怎么看,这个女人翻哪一张牌都是输。为什么呢?她唯一能胜出的机会就是那个男人的女人自己叛离了男人,而男人愿意让她当替代。但……就算如此,不光是机会渺茫,她要是能得到幸福,她在十年前就应该不会错过。理由非常简单,要是一个人懂得爱,她当年不会不理睬那个她现在希望会爱她如往昔的男人。人生不是一条线,它不会因为你醒悟了又让你美丽动人再度青春。她要是当年在真爱的基础上和老天赌一把,她未必会输

最近老男人看到一个帖子,那个美女说:迟了,无论你多帅多高,我已经有喜欢的人……估计这个女工要是看到这个帖子,应该会感触良多。我不知道那个又高又帅的男生是谁,但这个女生和当年的女工在老男人眼里都是傻子,都不明白爱情。报章说男的是情痴……男的都没有出现,也不知道十年后还爱不爱这个女工,为什么用‘情痴’?我不知道,也不想知道。我只知道这个女工当年要是真的碰到了情痴,这样对待他对人家的伤害太大了,所以个人是觉得……这个女工是不是应该手下留情,别再找那个男人,自己去相亲算了,找个什么老头子嫁了也好。所以我想让THB站在女工朋友的角度去思考,她到底是支持还是不支持女工去找那个‘情痴’?因为……要是不去找,这个‘朋友’大概注定孤老一生。

情义部的关系系统其实很简单就是为什么。除非你基于真正的爱情,你不可能赌得过老天。当年既然知道男人爱她,却故意避开,对爱情已经是不尊重的。除非你有本事学老男人这样,准备孤傲一世,否则接下来哪一张牌都是错的。老天的把戏很简单。就好像我要是不回国继续在希拉莉身边,小猫就没有人理,老男人就再也见不到凯瑟琳,而在北京最终可能会是‘病死’收场。而希拉莉不明白,要是老男人在北京多待上三年她就当上了‘老’太太。老男人没有告诉她,我让她自己决定。结果她不愿意等,她不信。女人的智慧……

要说明的就是,如果女人不懂得爱情,便是爱神在你面前出现,你还是会眼巴巴失去的。因为真的爱我的话……没有理由不信老男人,没有理由那么自欺欺人,没有理由不包容老男人。

老天的赌局老男人还在陪着玩。要是我不回来,我立马就输。如今四张牌都是虚的,老天发的下一张牌是否王牌那就很难说了。

女工的问题所以很简单,她到现在还不明白什么是爱情的话,她一定会输。她已经没有青春当筹码,多几年她连小孩儿都生不出来。估计现在是不是心慌意乱被迫登报找那个男人……这就要看她觉悟了没有。要是清醒了,在余下的时间内还是可以当神仙眷侣,要还是不明白……勉强是没有幸福的,特别是自欺欺人地勉强自己。情义部向来就说了,自己的心是不会说谎的。希望康没分自己清楚自己在干什么。

无论是THB或什么人,就正宗鸡和拆桌院的私人决定外人要论是非对错似乎不太适合。因为外人如何决定,也不比他们自己清楚。感情的事情,不是铭文规章。所以拆桌院说的没错,你们根本不必向外界交代什么……越描越黑。这些群众不过就是八卦无聊。其实他们要是移民到第三国去,按照各国的律法规章,只要不承认洛杉矶的婚约那连离婚都不必。天下的三八基本上就是三八。娱乐圈其实就是如此……帅哥美女云集的名利场,是个迅速致富的小圈子。但也是个外界不会明白的‘心态’环境。这类芝麻绿豆的小事儿其实过于普遍。希望媒体别继续渲染……

但媒体不渲染,怎么还是媒体?真是个矛盾的圈子。老男人不喜欢这个是非之地。
[Super strange, so many visitors from various parts of the world… Including Beijing, you got at least two varied IPs from China but in spite of all these, I don’t get to detect them on this blog’s stats?]

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T (H) (B) said…

If all relationships are based on love then there will be a lot more divorce cases.

Feelings change overtime but there have to be something else that make you want to spend the rest of your life with one person.

You are not being realistic and you definitely don’t get what I mean.

Scope is not wrong. THB is the specimen he is looking for. I have made a reply to her. This helps in understanding the aspect of such women in a varied environment. Perhaps I am not realistic and definitely not getting what she has meant but… I did come across too many such women, and as I have replied… there is even a gigolo industry catering to women of similar traits, and one qualifying trait for this industry is: Feelings change overtime… Based on love is not being realistic. It’s 1001% chance that THB has not being in (real) love…

Feelings for the destined one/s never do change.

But that shows that the specimen is truly very young.

If she doesn’t base her relationship on love, then when her destined prince charming does come… It would be exciting to see how she’d react to the ‘something else’ in face of her true love. I have seen this before… Tai Tais fighting against their husbands for ‘true love’ when a gigolo appeared… It may not even be true love but… For whatever something else ‘to spend the rest of your life with one person’, realistically speaking… never once have I come across a woman who said this and not fighting to run away with ‘true love’ when that somebody appears. This case is closed.

In order to understand the realistic part of love of which relationship should be based on… one has the need to be high in cultural level. As mentioned, Love is based on ultimate Moral, and Moral is based on Culture. In a cultural desert, this reading is actually normal but… a woman is always a woman. When true love does come… then she can try say that again. Right now, her true love obviously has yet to come. Which actually explains why the reading of her is she has many friends and is even engaged… but she is really lonely. Poor girl.

All relationship must be based on love, divorce cannot be based as an excuse for this idea of ‘being realistic’ because divorce is, as marriage, a perfect mechanism for an imperfect world, a predictability to be artificially imposed on unpredictable humans. So when she  explains this… Scope knows it’s time to close the case. When her true love comes, perhaps she’d remember Scope… I have no problem trying to counsel her as well in future… But in my experience, we can only lend our ears, but… ultimately speaking, what will happen to her… will still be decided by herself.

I don’t have to get what you mean, THB. Why do I need to know what women have to say… when what I am more interested in is the real woman behind all the great speeches. With no offence really meant, I sincerely wish her all the best. This specimen appropriately fills in the gap of local women’s mysterious irrational behavior. I must avoid such women… because here, the relationship must always be based on love. I don’t understand how people can go to vows for eternity when they know that their feelings for the other will change and… there is something else to make you want to spend the rest of his or her life with another. From so many observations… the vows are always broken because this ‘something else’ in face of the presence of another. And only true love can bring the irrational woman back as her feeling for the intruder changes… again.

The general conclusion about this something else usually points to this: Sense of security. Which is… laughably speaking the most unreliable component of relationships… which is even more unreliable or unrealistic than fake love. Her case will be closed until her true love appears… which is, until fate shall start giving her her challenge. Then we’d fully understand the reality of this specimen. Tell me accurately with your best sixth sense… what is beneath my underwear? This is about what sense of security is. Everything, nothing.

Of course, I may not be right.

I am closing for myself the cases of Lih, Kate, Cat and Hilary… There must be someone out there who will have feelings for me… forever and ever, and will stay with me through thick and thin, instead of betraying me and making my life miserable, again. THB’s friends can call me an idiot… But obviously, the Ministry of Love and Justice is relevant precisely because nobody believes in Love and Justice anymore. The Ministry of Education exists only because mankind’s lack of it, obvious lack of it. God exists only because mankind’s lack to answers. If my feelings for the girls don’t change over about 20 years in the most fickle-minded era of a man’s life, there must be someone else… someone special out there who will have her feelings for me for eternity.

I must seek her out.
[It is somewhat weird that so many visits are not picked up over months and probably years if I rely on the WordPress stats. Various visits from specific states will show what sort of contents would be for experimentation purposes. If the blog stats cannot reflect the IPs to such magnitude of hundreds in difference, the nature of gauging will be very tough. I have sent this to Support. As mentioned, even my maximum hits for a day was reduced from over 10,000 to about 7,000. I don’t care much about hits, but I want every IPs visit to be noted. Isn’t that the purpose of a stats? To show me maybe Hilary is reading this blog from China. The reason why I find it very hard to trust stats.]

Before you get shocked… look here!
[And look at THIS! Observe the same date, April 5. Obviously, all the rest of the IPs are gone! Highly ridiculous! And Support’s Ryan M even replied with my earlier three attachments excluding this one claiming they don’t count in my own hits… And I wasn’t in Beijing, or Canada or Spain or where else! This had been observed before. And something is hell wrong! The IPs are either erased, or simply channeled to paid blogs or what. I don’t think Support even read the attachments I sent them. Observe those IPs left in the red box and compare to the lists above.]

Shocking yeh~? Hundreds of IPs vanished just like that… And Support is telling me things as if they never understand what I am driving at!

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